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movie·PG-13·Feb 10, 2023·
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Your Place or Mine

movie
PG-13
February 10, 2023
Wokeometer Rating
2Based
Audience Woke Score
No Ratings Yet
Scale: 0 = not woke, 10 = maximally woke

TL;DR Verdict

A classic rom-com built on friendship, parenting, and romance with zero identity politics or social justice messaging. Pure neutral entertainment at a low 2/10 woke score.

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Detailed Analysis

Your Place or Mine is a conventional 2023 Netflix romantic comedy centered on longtime best friends Debbie and Peter who swap homes for a week, leading to self-discovery and romance.

The plot follows classic tropes including a one-night stand twenty years earlier, single-mom responsibilities, personal growth through swapped routines, and a friends-to-lovers resolution at an airport reunion. This original screenplay contains no foundational premise involving identity politics, systemic critiques, or social justice themes, keeping the focus squarely on friendship, parenting, and romance without any explicit messaging or lecture moments. Casting draws from an entirely new story with no established source characters, so no race, gender, or sexuality alterations occur.

Supporting roles remain incidental to the urban setting and do not drive the narrative or receive activist framing. No creator statements indicate activist intent. Audience reception centers on the film's old-school formula and lack of chemistry rather than any progressive elements or related controversies, confirming the minimal ideological footprint.

Key Factors

  • Original story with no established-character race/gender/sexuality changes or source-material alterations.
  • Incidental supporting diversity (e.g., Zoë Chao as Minka, Jesse Williams as Theo, Tig Notaro as Alicia) that does not drive narrative or receive activist framing.
  • Traditional rom-com focus on friendship, parenting, and romance; no explicit LGBTQ+ portrayal, lecture moments, or creator-stated activist intent.
  • Reception highlights lack of chemistry and old-school formula rather than any progressive messaging or backlash.

Methodology: Each score synthesizes audience discourse, critic and aggregator reception, and press coverage — weighed against the work itself, not any single source.

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Is Your Place or Mine Woke?

We've run a full content analysis on Your Place or Mine and scored it 2/10 on the woke scale. Read our detailed breakdown above to see exactly what we found.

Frequently Asked Questions

What kind of woke content is in Your Place or Mine?

Our analysis checks for themes like identity politics, race-swapping, gender ideology, environmental activism, anti-religious messaging, and other progressive agenda elements. The score breakdown above shows which specific categories were flagged and how heavily they factor into Your Place or Mine's overall score.

Is Your Place or Mine family-friendly?

Wokeometer focuses on ideological content rather than traditional ratings (violence, language, etc.). Your Place or Mine is rated PG-13. For a full picture, combine our woke analysis with the age rating to decide if it's right for your family.

How does Wokeometer score movies?

We evaluate media across multiple ideological categories on a 0–10 scale. Scores of 0–3 mean story-first, 4–6 have moderate elements, and 7–10 flag heavily agenda-driven content. Learn more about our methodology →

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Top Cast

Reese Witherspoon
4.6Mixed

Reese Witherspoon

Debbie

Ashton Kutcher
1.6Based

Ashton Kutcher

Peter Coleman

Zoë Chao
4.7Mixed

Zoë Chao

Minka

Jesse Williams
1.5Based

Jesse Williams

Theo

Wesley Kimmel
2Based

Wesley Kimmel

Jack

Tig Notaro
7Woke

Tig Notaro

Alicia

Steve Zahn
2.4Based

Steve Zahn

Zen

Rachel Bloom
6.8Mixed

Rachel Bloom

Scarlet

Griffin Matthews
3.3Based

Griffin Matthews

John Golden

Vella Lovell
1.9Based

Vella Lovell

Becca

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